here we go ladies!

The reason behind this post is the late night discussion I had with my friend, why on earth we stay so fix on notion that women are suppose to get married? In the last few days I had the following clashes that made me sick:-

1.     I am a ‘girl’ , I need to learn how to cook!

2.    Boys can get by, we girls are versatile!

3.    You need to be religious!

Oh man! Hello which century? Can’t really understand how quick others are to lay down the moral and social obligations for women! The divorce rate in new York is 50% ,

Yeah, you’ll say they are Americans!  Then understand this, its 40% in Mumbai…

How about this? Shocked?

Here I would like to explain before any conclusion strikes, I am not a vehement supporter of divorce, I do believe marriages are sacred! But what I really find disgusting, its how the brutal conservatives blame the women,

If a marriage breaks and officially because the wife was focused on her career, what is so bloody wrong about it? What is wrong about not being born superhuman? Manage home and kids, manage office indeed!

Wow….hold it right there, if all the male fraternity expects  their wife will be a full fledged home maker, while making a top notch professional, lets come back to reality,

She NEEDS YOUR COOPERATION AS MUCH AS YOU DO!

If you are too ashamed to wash the dishes, a blot on your manhood,  I am really sorry to burst the bubble, but a lot of women have began with the process.(of filing the divorce ofcrs!)

They have started questioning,

“why can’t he do that?”

“why is it always me taking leaves from work?”

And trust me these are not really those questions you want to hear answers of!

Women in this country have began cross questioning, many like my friend give a damn, for her marriage is not a social obligation, it would be a decision, based on the very fact if she is ready to spend the rest of her life with the guy she choose to love.